I myself am a lover of gay men. I have a bunch of besties who are gay and they are exquisite in their gayness. It's like an added bonus to their already wonderful personalities. So when i see gay humour i take it very tongue in cheek. (No, not butt cheek.)
As long as it is not homophobic it's all good. So that leads us back to the superhero genre once again this week.
Sounds like a job for "Carson Kressley".
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